Can I please someday find a guy that loves me just the way I am, imperfect? I am really bugged by all the guys in my past who have told me that I am wonderful, a great mate for them, but... What's with the but? If there's a but, then don't bring it up, okay guys? Just let me go on thinking you're a jerk! Be self sacrificial, will ya? I am a woman, and women can't deal with the but!